Perhaps it is like you say Lulu Belle, you think as you sit in a course room with your demo kit to hand, this is a good thing - the disconnected person will come to their senses, recant and all will be well with the world as Scientology makes strides salvaging this sector... And then it happens to you - and suddenly you see the reality - you are at the sharp end of a Machiavellian sword and it is not about recanting and rejoining the flock - it is about being smashed into the dirt by people you thought were your friends and were better than that. It is then that you see the us and them mentality of the "Church" and that it really is a cult.
Well, maybe now she will wake up.
I would love it if Debbie "woke up" as a result of all of this but I suspect it's going to be a rough ride for her no matter what happens.
She's sick, she's middle aged with no apparent "real life" job skills, and she's married to a guy who apparently wishes he was back in the SO.
If she pulls out of this she's probably going to have to make some big changes. And it's going to be tough because she can't go to those in for help and she can't go to those out for help.