Finding a soulmate is one thing, playing the game is another.
Even if you find your soulmate, you may want to come out and play at some point. Its a guy thing. For instance ... while I was living in the greater LA area, there were some foods from opposite ends of the spectrum that I enjoyed ... I especially liked going to the most authentic of Mexican restaurants and getting a bowl of menudo, which is a hot an spicy soup, more of a stew, where the meat is beef tripe, cow stomach liner. And then there was going to all you can eat Japanese buffets, where I would go thru as many as 7 plates of raw fish. But as much as I liked either of those dishes, I doubt that I could deal with eating nothing but either of them again and again night after night. At some point, I would definitely want to go to Jerry's Famous Deli over in Studio City and get a huge pastrami sandwich.
Anyways ... so you are attached or not, you decide that you want to go out and play. Paying for it is out of the question, you will be left completely unsatisfied and feel ripped off. So you are left with the option of playing the game or not playing. To not play is to guarantee your sense of frustration. To play is to risk feeling more frustrated. You decide to play. Now what? YOU NEED SOME SORT OF ANGLE TO SET YOU APART FROM THE CROWD IN A POSITIVE MANNER. If you are known to have serious money, that is the most generic means possible. If you do NOT have serious money but you have more than most, enough to play the game well ... you can use a relatively small investment to create the APPEARANCE of wealth.
For guys my age ... mid 50's ... the most ingenious system I have seen in action ... three of my friends in the greater LA area pooled resources and started a limo company, including incorporation, corporate officer positions, etc. They pooled enough capital to purchase a used Caddy stretch limo that was wrecked. They had a connection that pulled the frame to straighten it out, and had extensive work done. By the time it was finished, it looked brand spanking new and they had like 14k between the 3 of them invested. They then had a custom bar built in the passenger compartment, other ammenities as well. They invested in getting their chauffer's licenses, they invested in tuxedo's and limo driver uniforms. By the time they were all done they had like 20k invested. They had some hired driver to keep the car on the road enough nights to let it pay for their escapades with the profits, which weren't much, but covered expenses for them.
Here is the modus operandi they used ... on any given night that they went out, all three went out together. One would be the driver, he wouldn't get out of the car, he would be in uniform. The other two would be in tuxedo's. The two that were playing would go out to an upper class hotel lobby bar and create a stir, being overdressed. They would be looked at by all sorts of women who would perceive that they obviously just came from some sort of black tie affair. They would then say "we have a limo, there's champagne!" Their hit rate was 50%. If two women came into the car with them, they scored invariably. Half the time they would go home alone, half the time they would get some women in the car with them. They were meeting women generally in their mid to late 30's, sometimes mid to late 20's. They always had a cover story as to where they came from and why the tuxedo's and their circumstance was they were always from out of town, so that story put women on notice that they were out for a good time only.
There is another method that works that is cheaper, and that is always have the absolute top of the line connoseur quality marijuana, top of the line cocaine (NOT CRACK, too low class) and some hard to obtain perscription drugs such as percodans, percocets, dilauded, vicodin, the little pink hearts (dextroamphetamine sulfate 5mg) and black beauties (that one is the holy grail of perscription fun drugs). Try to keep it to just the weed. What you do NOT want is a low class junkie, what you want is some gal who has enjoyed weed way back when, is bored, alone, frustrated, and has zip point zero zilch nada access to weed because she is NOT a junkie and doesn't run with a drug using crowd. The War on Drugs has polarized the population into total drug zombies or total straights, usually for fear of busts and piss tests. To have great weed on hand at the right time for a gal that wants to cut loose for a bit but has no access, THAT is an entree, and a relatively inexpensive one at that.
Of anything that I have seen in action that works consistently, its the limo game.
I hope you all are happy with different avatars.
I think that it is way cool that we are talking openly about drugs.
We had a friend, a couple of years ago, who threw a big 40th birthday party for her husband. The band that played are friends of mine (Charlie Rush was the original drummer). There was lots of dope. It was out in the open. It was like the 60s used to be. It really was quite nice.
It's 2010. I haven't had but one 2D since 1976, who wasn't a Class Vlll. And I didn't get connected in a bar or club. I'm pretty boring actually. Depending on how you count the children (his / her / theirs) we have 2 kids who were Class Vllls when they were in. The older one grows organic tomatoes in her backyard. The younger one has a boyfriend at UCLA working on his Piled higher and Deeper (Ph.D) Like I said, boring.