Gadfly
Crusader
Gad,
I feel you here man, and much of this is why I can't define it, lies mixed with truths, help mixed with betrayals and paranoia ... good and bad.
Here is an interesting thought for you ARC. Affinity, is somewhat of a clinical term. To me, ARC is as much a control mechanism in the current Scilon culture as it is a tool to help people learn how to get along better. You can use ARC to get someone to do something they don't want to do in a technical sense.
What if we switched Affinity with Love. Love, Reality and communication? how would that change things in a spiritual sense? Love is not as clinical. I recall LRH only rarely speaking of love. It is a deep and meaningful word and action.
Well, I find the concept useful - ARC. Love is NOT "affinity".
I have found that ARC works as a mechanism, whether you know about it or not. It functions as a sort of "law".
I define affinity as "proximity", "willingness or desire to be in the same space as something else", and "degree of likingness". Very simply, it is quite true that when you "like" someone of something, you tend to also desire to be in the same space as that person or thing. That is just the way it is.
Communication is just communication, and again, one tends to be more willing to communicate with something, about something, or with somebody if one "likes" the something or somebody. It is just the way it is.
Reality is the KEY factor here. By that I mean WHAT and HOW YOU AGREE WITH SOMETHING. Whatever you agree to be true and not true, however you consider things to be, is how they are for you. What is REAL to and for you, is unique to you, different for every person, and entirely dependent on your unique "agreements" about everything and anything. It is what it is. It is TRUE that "what is true for you is what is true for you", but it doesn't mean it is "true". You will get closer to the truth if and when you base what you accept as true on honest and careful observations of the relevant data.
Now, I never accepted that ARC equals understanding. But, ARC, and mostly REALITY (agreement) do very much relate to whatever understanding you might have about something. Realize there can be good understandings, bad understandings, correct understandings, vague understandings, distorted understandings, and on and on. There are probably far more "incorrect" understandings floating around than correct ones.
It is simply true that any person's "understanding" about something is directly related to what he or she accepts as true (agrees with) about this something. This is of course limited and shaped by education, culture, biases, and all sorts of other factors. The concepts of ARC and Understanding have little or nothing to do with "truth". Now, if your understanding is based on agreements with things rooted in careful and honest observations, then, yes, ARC and U will have more to do with "truth".
Now, ARC gets abused as a tool of control and manipulation by the Church of Scientology and Scientologists - just as defined and encouraged by Hubbard. For example, the ruin-finding drill is an exercise in using ARC to control others.
With my own understanding of ARC, I find it useful, even though I rarely think in terms of the Scientology concepts anymore. I also almost NEVER "use ARC" to manipulate other people. I rarely try to "handle" anybody for any personal reason. I let life and people be just who they are - whereas Scientology is so often about CHANGING people and things to be something else (via "handlings").
Note: I found that when I looked around and observed about the various factors Hubbard described in "ARC", that what he was describing was there to be seen in the real world. And, if I abandoned the Scientology nomenclature, the same or similar behaviors were still observable. I didn't often blindly accept Hubbard's ideas, but I did often accept various ideas AFTER taking the time to observe the relevant areas IF my observations supported what Hubbard said.
Even while in Scientology, I would take the ideas that couldn't be confirmed or verified and label then "currently unverified". While I would keep it to myself, because I had seen that total agreement is demanded inside the C of S, I would have even these sort of ideas labelled as "currently unverified":
Having the Correct Technology (from KSW)
I saw that THIS IDEA was more a belief than any fact. I also saw that Scientology functioned to demand acceptance of this idea, whether you had ever verified it or not. What I saw it to be was an "assertion". It actually is a "claim" that pretends to be a fact and a reality. The notion that Scientology possesses the "correct technology" cannot really be verified, and instead, it almost always exists as a BELIEF (on "faith").
Lastly, yes, Hubbard rarely spoke of "love" (or its twin brother "compassion"), and to me, these ideas are VERY key to any legitimate spiritual practice.
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