Fool on the Hill
I have just read like 10 posts on this thread and I still dont know what the problem is/was.
Instead of talking about the elephant that is NOT in the room, can you PLEASE just talk about the elephant that IS in the middle of the room?
What thread(s) are potentially problematic currently that brought this discussion back up? If you want people to learn from it just tell us !
Seems to be the most efficient way to handle this 'situation'....???
An example might be complaining about or mocking someone who defends him or herself- like, say, if someone were to double team with another contributor and were to claim to want to take bets on how many replies the person might post about something rude that was said and what those might say.