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Discussion in 'Fair Game and Disconnection Victims' started by Illegal Alien, Nov 30, 2010.

  1. I told you I was trouble

    I told you I was trouble Suspended animation

    Thanks for this lovely update IA, I am so happy for you all.

  2. Outethicsofficer

    Outethicsofficer Silver Meritorious Patron

    IA & Shane,



    Oh and we had a good day today!....look out for some Breaking News.
  3. Happy Days

    Happy Days Silver Meritorious Patron

    IA thank you for the update ... it's great to know that your boy is settling in. What a wonderful Christmas you all will have.

    Love and wishes to you and your family
  4. scooter

    scooter Gold Meritorious Patron

  5. degraded being

    degraded being Sponsor

    I think you're the best for your no nonsense way of dealing with the cult.
  6. Nicole

    Nicole Silver Meritorious Patron

    Thank you!
  7. Ogsonofgroo

    Ogsonofgroo Crusader

    Awesome Christmas to you and yours! :happydance: :cake: :happydance:

  8. Arthur Dent

    Arthur Dent Silver Meritorious Patron

    Thanks for the update, IA.
    So very glad it's going well.
    I understand about seeing Shane sleep after the beach. It's obvious he feels safe. I'll bet he hasn't 'nodded off' that comfortably in a long, long time.

    I went through a similar scene and I just let my kid sleep as much and whenever wanted. That alone, was very, very healing and really laid a strong foundation for recovery. Just letting them feel safe.

    Hope the church noise and phone calls have quieted.

    Have a very happy Christmas together!!
  9. Feral

    Feral Rogue male

    Nice one IA, very, very nice. :)
  10. Carmel

    Carmel Crusader

    This is just so cool, Adrian.........Wonderful, inspiring stuff to all! :blowkiss:
  11. Panda Termint

    Panda Termint Cabal Of One

  12. Blown in ANZO

    Blown in ANZO Patron


    I didn't get any PM from you. Do you still want to know?

    Try me at;

    I'll tell you alll about what's happening.

    Merry Christmas OSA. Enjoy the ethics cycles!

    Cop ya later!
    Last edited: Dec 24, 2010
  13. Panda Termint

    Panda Termint Cabal Of One

  14. supafreak

    supafreak Patron Meritorious

    *pulls up search function*
  15. Outethicsofficer

    Outethicsofficer Silver Meritorious Patron

    Nothing to find on that search Supa, have had to shelve reporting stuff...just for now:)
  16. supafreak

    supafreak Patron Meritorious

    Okey-dokey. I'll be waiting.:happydance:
  17. Wisened One

    Wisened One Crusader

    :drama: :waiting: :drama:

    Btw IA: Hope you and Shane and Family all had a Wonderful Merry Christmas! :yes: :hug: That goes for ALL of ESMB'ers, too!! :yes:
  18. Kerry

    Kerry Patron with Honors

    What great news for Shane and family. Just heart warming. :)
  19. Illegal Alien

    Illegal Alien Patron with Honors

    Mobile phones in the Sea Org

    I would not imagine that Sea Org members are allowed there own mobile phones.
    Anybody know if this is allowed?
    I would think it is to much of a connection to the outside world for the Church to risk it.
    I could be wrong but this is what has me curious.
    Shane,s Mom still contacts him via text messages.
    Apparetly she received a mobile phone for xmas.
    Now looking at this; as we know scio.
    I am declared SP Shane has blown to stay with me and his Mom a current Sea Org member is still allowed to stay in contact with him on a day to day basis; without OSA intervention.
    I find that really hard to beleive.
    Infact it is lickely the texts of "how you doing" could be sent by OSA and Shane thinks it from his Mom.
    I may ask Shane for the number and give her a call myself just to be sure.
  20. scooter

    scooter Gold Meritorious Patron

    Sounds like OSA's running scared - very, very scared.:happydance:

    I'd call the number to see who answers - of course, it could be that they now have the heads-up and have "returned" the phone to your ex but it's well worth checking out.:yes:

    But to let an SO member stay in contact with a blown RPFer AND a declared SP?:omg:

    Something is very wrong with that picture.