Glenda
Crusader
Yep. Humans are wired to be social and dependent for survival. There are loads of studies on how loneliness is detrimental to health, etc. Core wounds in humans tend to be about rejection and abandonment. We are the least developed species at birth and are completely dependent on caregivers to survive. This sets up the need for others throughout life. Developing, and retaining, a healthy sense of self is often a very challenging thing for humans because of this need for other humans to survive. Personally I think human design is bloody complicated.Gotta disagree here. Human being are inherently tribal. Man cannot survive alone.
Do a google search on it. The recognition of humans being tribal is shown to be everywhere. It's not shameful, it's how we survived all through time. A group gives you shared shelter, shared gathering & hunting of food, shared responsibility of child rearing, a group with shared nationalism or blood in times of war. Of course there is individuality amongst members of a tribe, but the greater pull is the group, because man cannot survive alone.
In the hunter gatherer days, if you were cast out of your tribe it meant certain death, unless you found a new tribe. The urge toward survival trumps individualism.
If a man wants to become a politician he has to align himself with a group, even if he doesn't really share the groups ideas i.e Bernie Sanders and the Democrats, Donald Trump and the Republicans. When was the last time an independent became President?
Humans are not designed and/or conditioned right from the start to be individuals. We need and desire each other for loads of things whether we are aware of it or not.


