Mimsey Borogrove
Crusader
I was thinking - lets say you have a few kids and one is still in the S.O. and said child has disconnected from you. You are older and you don't really want to leave your assets to the child, because you are worried the church will force the sale of them if you pass away. But, on the other hand, you want some sort of provision for the child if he/she leaves the SO. The bug is that the child may not cease being a scientologist, just because they route out etc.
My thought, is this: set up a savings account in the child's name and off and on deposit money in it. My logic is this: The child will need some assets to establish themselves, get an apartment, a job etc, because the GD $500 they hand out is a joke. The money should be unconditional - if they want to piss it away on the bridge, that's their prerogative. Hopefully, they will be smart enough to use it wisely, and start a new life.
I read in the latest Rolling Stone an article about a family that disowned their daughter who was doing really well in college, but discovered she was gay. And in a night's misadventure, pictures of her turned up on face book. So, she decided to call her parents and fess up, rather than let them find out via facebook. When she "came out" on the phone to her Catholic mom, she was hung up on, cut off, her credit cards canceled and was told by her brother to return the car her parents bought for her or it would be reported stolen. After a year of pleading to reopen a com line with them, they told her she had to get counseling and cease being gay. She couldn't and she's never heard from them since. She ultimately did odd jobs, finished college and established a life. But for a while she was homeless.
I was shocked by that article, knowing - I could not be that parent, and if it were my child, and I had passed, I would want my child to have a shot at getting back on his/her feet. But, knowing what the deal is with "our" church - I would roll over in my urn if the reges ever got their hands on my stuff.
Thoughts?
Mimsey
My thought, is this: set up a savings account in the child's name and off and on deposit money in it. My logic is this: The child will need some assets to establish themselves, get an apartment, a job etc, because the GD $500 they hand out is a joke. The money should be unconditional - if they want to piss it away on the bridge, that's their prerogative. Hopefully, they will be smart enough to use it wisely, and start a new life.
I read in the latest Rolling Stone an article about a family that disowned their daughter who was doing really well in college, but discovered she was gay. And in a night's misadventure, pictures of her turned up on face book. So, she decided to call her parents and fess up, rather than let them find out via facebook. When she "came out" on the phone to her Catholic mom, she was hung up on, cut off, her credit cards canceled and was told by her brother to return the car her parents bought for her or it would be reported stolen. After a year of pleading to reopen a com line with them, they told her she had to get counseling and cease being gay. She couldn't and she's never heard from them since. She ultimately did odd jobs, finished college and established a life. But for a while she was homeless.
I was shocked by that article, knowing - I could not be that parent, and if it were my child, and I had passed, I would want my child to have a shot at getting back on his/her feet. But, knowing what the deal is with "our" church - I would roll over in my urn if the reges ever got their hands on my stuff.
Thoughts?
Mimsey