Thanks everyone for the messages, they were nice.
re: enforced marriages - first of all you cann't have sex if you are not married. You cann't even masturbate in theory - I mean it is considered an overt and it might come up on O/W write ups and they might make it public. I knew when my junior (girl) did it because the ethics officer made me to read her confessions. I even supervised security checkers and have seen confessions what you would not believe exists in teh Sea Org. You guys would turn red!!!!!
Second - if your visa expires and you do not get a green card it is better to get married otherwise you can be transferred to a way worse org where pay is worse, no medical stuff, no liberty, not even your country or friends.
In 2004 in FSO most of green cards applications were rejected by USCIS - 86(!!!!!!!!) people had to get married to USA permanent resident or citizen!!! Establishment officers were running around like chickens with head cut off operating as dating service
this did happen in FSO!!!!