I lived nearly exactly the life the Dalai Lama describes above. It is spiritual practice but for me, it did not lead to enough success and enjoyment in life. I never lied, ever!!! Never humiliated of mocked others and had a good heart and helped others whenever asked and never expected any compensation.
I did all of this and also was very shy and unassuming. Leading this type of life for decades, I was able to sleep nights and was perceived as a nice guy and that is about it. Women, for the most part are not going to go for a male of this type and my female counterpart who was just like me, Carole Ferguson, was not going to attract many men although she did get Wings Hauser to have an affair with her.
A person has to have some style or panache about them, some spirit of play, which I had never heard of or known about. Look at the Dalai Lama himself, he has "Spirit of Play" and he radiates confidence, charisma and Ethics presence. People want to be around him.
If one is to live as described in the Dalai's paragraph above, one had better add the traits I mentioned above or it is going to be one lonely ride. A life of being rejected by women, passed over for promotions, etc. which leads to one motivating about the world being aberrated and going for glitz over substance. I lived this type of life for nearly 40 years and I will agree that it is THE BASIS for a spiritual life, however in my opinion, more seasoning must be added to the mix for one to lead an enjoyable life where one's potentials are realized and where life is really fun.
Since coming to ESMB in February, 2009, while trying to still uphold the Dalai's principles, I have done a complete remake of my life. Carmelo said something late last year which resonated with me. "Why be content with playing or even being a star in the "minor leagues" of life (using the baseball term)". The minor leagues consist of lower level teams in cities such as Oshkosh, Peoria, Cedar Rapids, Keokuk, Kalamazoo, Podunk, which develop and feed stars to the major league teams. Why not play and star in the major leagues. Besides having all of the Apollo '73 thread members on my lines, I am also communicating with Bent Corydon, Ken Urquhart, Purple Haze and had dinner with TMT recently and reconnected with my old opera singing waitress friend, Joan. The thing is to still uphold the Dalai's principles but add in a little panache and style and play the Dalai Lama's game taking the private jets in the major leagues instead of being content to ride the busses to the smaller cities down in the minor leagues.
Lakey