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Hail Hail the Gang's All Here!
Sweetness, now that you are back, I feel like breaking out some mugs of ale and singing the old drinking song from the 1920's, "Hail, hail the Gangs all here, what the heck do we care now that we're together."
Lakey
Sorry guys, I had wi-fi connectivity problems, which hopefully are corrected now. A quick catch up...
I wondered what happened to you. We need you for your official thread hostess abilities. The post was left unmanned, er uh unwomanned for too long.!
Anony Kat, welcome!
I already welcomed the Kat on my revivified Educational thread, typical of a Kat, Anony Kat followed me here, problably looking for bits of food.
Eeepie, I haven't seen you around lately and was beginning to worry that you had washed away in a winter storm...so nice to have you join us here!
I could not figure out who this was. Finally I got it, Mark "E." Baker. How are we supposed to figure out such a convoluted nickname, why not just call him Bakey like you usually do. You named me Lakey, after all, and it stuck.
I liked your poem, Heidrun!
Her poem seems to have struck a chord with quite a few of us!
Dear Dully, thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. It's wonderful to have you with us here!![]()
Yes, having one of the mainstays of ESMB posting here is an honor.
Purple Hazy darling, of course you are included!You and I can be the singing waitresses for Lakey to practice his flirting skills on...
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That singing waitress, Joan, there are two listings for her, one in Woodland Hills where she has been listed for years and a new one out in Yucaipa. I called the new one and got an answering machine and it sort of sounded like Joan's voice but I was not sure. Any way, Purple Haze left a message for her which was not returned. Joan was a very close friend of Kathy Moore, the dancer, back at CCLA in he 70's and well into the 80's as well. Purple was also close with her and wanted to reconnect and I recommended she call Joan. This Kathy Moore is a different person from the person of the same name who is an executive at Orange County Org. Does anyone know the whereabouts of the ex Dancer, Kathy Moore? The Yucaipa number is free but for the Woodland Hills number, one has to register and pay a small fee to get the number. I wrote a snail mail to the address in Yucaipa which was not answered so the two Joan's must be different people even though their last name is rare, "Loosli". The Joan I knew would have definitely responded to my letter..
Mark, count me in for the Italian fest. Carmelo, you can cook for me, anytime! Sounds yummy, and healthy, too!
I'm sorry to hear Alan's celebration of Life will be private, but of course, it's logical that it would be. If nobody invites us, maybe there is some other way that we can commemorate his passing, and celebrate his contributions? :confused2: Let's get creative here.
Yes, those of us in the counties surrounding L.A., Orange County and Riverside County could meet up at the Riverside Mission and hold our own Ceremony to honor Alan. Sweetness, have your people call my people and Mark's People!
Roger, I really appreciate the fine work that went into your ebook. Learning how to learn is so very important. I will continue to read as I make time for it. Thanks for giving us first look!
Yes, amen to that!
Carmelo, I do have some ideas about your tricky situation...one is very simple. When you get the chance to spend some quality Grandparenting time alone with the kids in question, or each kid individually, better yet, read to them. Make a fun game out of it in some way. Find material that will intrigue and captivate their interest. Read some old letters or family history. Read some of your own writing and and ask them their opinions. Get them to read to you, from whatever works for them, from a cookbook, instruction manual, 'Zine, poetry, classic lit, vampire lit, science, pop music video or video game reviews, tabloid journalism, whatever tickles their fancy...take turns reading and being read to, and discuss what is covered. Make it fun. Don't harp on mistakes in grammar, slowness of reading, and just gently and matter of factly correct their pronunciation as mistakes occur.
Give them a sense of personal power and accomplishment with the practical fun and success with reading during shared quality time with you. Don't tie it to school work or grades or testing measurements or future success. Let it be real world stuff. If they are really into sports, then magazines or rule books or coaches/players biographies, etc.
Many a listless learner has been turned around by this method.
This may take YOU way beyond your comfort zone, but I'll bet it will help them to stay more open to learning, now and in the future. Don't let it be dull, whatever subjects or topics you cover. Making reading together a fun, special time with them, not work, NOT study...create some pleasure moments with them.
If all else fails, they will have some nice memories of fun times with you, rather than worry, stress, nagging, prompting, evaluating, etc.
I think they are of an age where they have to begin to desire competency and literacy for themselves. Mother's issues are her own, at this point, and will be more so, as time progresses.
A bypass of locating and providing the funding for professional tutoring services might be called for, also, if they really are several grades behind their peers. I would contact the school and see what the respective teacher's suggest, and what testing and professional evaluations have been done with them.
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Sweetness, now that you are back, I feel like breaking out some mugs of ale and singing the old drinking song from the 1920's, "Hail, hail the Gangs all here, what the heck do we care now that we're together."
Lakey
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Glad to have you with us! 
Just spent 6 hours on Saturday visiting someone on the edge in the hospital in ICU and then sat with him 12 hours straight yesterday, to give his wife a break. It's heartwarming to see someone on the brink change their mind and make it back
and then we physically moved to a regular hospital room with a view, which helped make it more real. I'm definitely ready to party and celebrate life! :dance2:Anyone join me? Purple Hazy here.
If nobody loves us! 