The Little Thread Which Grew - the Apollo '73 to Everything But

[lkwdblds]

Strange musings about women

At the Sunday Kangen party I encountered an interesting situation.

ANISHA - DID I GET HIT UPON BY A 22-23 YEAR OLD SUPER MODEL TYPE? Hector and I were waiting to use the restroom when a darling young super model type came right up to me and said to me, "You look familiar, I think we have met before." I told her that she did not look at all familiar to me and she said that she is pretty certain that we have met. I asked her where she lives and she said in Long Beach and I replied that I do home remodeling in the Long Beach area and that it is likely that somehow we met through that. She said no, that is not possible, she doesn't own a home or anything like that. I said that if we did not meet through that venue, then I do not know how we could have met. She said, "Oh well, a lot of times you think you have met someone and you really haven't but you sure look familiar. I then went back to get food from a buffet and was pleased to find Anisha at our table and we started talking with her includinging Hector, Edey, Edey's boss and me. This girl was very, very sharp and intelligent and quite worldy. I asked her if she had been helped by drinking the Kangen water but I quickly added, before she had a chance to answer, "...probably not because you are so young and there has not been enough time for things to go wrong with your body." She said that she had been helped greatly by the water, particularly with her sleeping which had been irregular and is now sound.

Shortly thereafter, our group wanted to leave and I thought seriously about asking her for her phone number. I am 70, but most people take me from 52 to 60, still I am easily old enough to be her grandpa. I thought I should just move on and forget it. Even so, I asked her, "What do your do, are you still in school? She said, "No, I run my own business, and then I also do modeling and some small movie and acting rolls, in my spare time but my main interest is my business." Just then, I was told we are leaving now so I told her I had to go and that I really enjoyed meeting her and talking to her and she said, that it was nice meeting me too and that she was sure that she would see us all around at the ensuing Kangen Water events. Does anyone have any comments on this woman Anisha?

Edey compared well to all the super model looking women present. She wore a lovely print dress, sleeveless and with a hem line just above the knees. She is nearly 60 and there were 4 or 5 beutiful women there in their mid 20's and Anisha, in her early 20's" Eddie still looked very good.

Edey has excellent posture and carries herself very well. She is still very sexy. Only Anisha rang my chimes more than Edey as far as being turned on. Eddie held her own with the other women, 35 years her junior.
Lakey

 

[Terril park]

Hector Carmona called me 3 weeks ago, we got to talking and he mentioned some physical ailments he had. I told him about ionized and alkaline water. He knew a place near him that gave out free Kangen water. He had tried it for a while some time back for a short time and stopped. I suggested he begin drinking it again. Five days ago he called me, just leaving the VA after receiving a physical exam and was all excited. His Cholesterol reading was 170, the first time in his life it had been below 200. Also, some psoriasis condition on his arm had gone away. I checked with Edey and her boss and we found there was a Kangen event scheduled at in Northridge, near where Hector lives for Sunday, which was yesterday. We got Hector to agree to go and the three of us drove up their to meet Hector.

THE EVENT OF A LIFETIME - IT FELT LIKE BEING AT THE PLAYBOY MANSION! The event was small, maybe 15 public attended along with we three from Orange Country and about 6 Kangen muckety mucks (executives). The event was staged by perhaps the biggest Kanen exec in the USA, Tony Mack, a middle aged Black man but this was not his home but the home of another company big shot. Another Company big shot was a chef and catered the affain, offering some of the best food I have ever tasted.

The first people we met, were a mid 20's couple who both had thick British accents and who looked like models, male and female. They were joined by a mutual friend from France, Elodie, was was also about 25, lavishly attired and loooking like a model. We were given wine glasses with Kangen water and there were women servers who kept going around filling the water glasses.

HECTOR - I had not seen him since 1979 I believe, when I took my last course at CCLA on La Brea. He was still head registrar then all the way up to 1982. Hector looked pretty good but casewise, he was not in good shape. He was all shook up because he had a hard time finding the place. Hector met Edey and her boss and then Hector and I sat down and started talking. He was so tense, I began giving him a very strong neck, shoulder and upper back masssage while we were talking. The sides of his neck were in terrible shape but after a good 20 - 25 minutes of massage plus with him telling me of some of his horror stories leaving C of S and expressing tremendous amounts of charge and me going out of my way to give superlative acknowledgements, he began to feel more relaxed. One super acknowledgement I use no in my "ack bag" is "(Person's name) and then, that is so real to me!" Another one is, "Wow, that's amazing, I experienced almost the same thing!!" I only say these things if they are true but having been there in the Sea Org, a harmonic of what he experienced also happened to me in every instance.

AGAIN WE SEE THE VALUE OF A DEBRIEF. Poor Hecky Pooh! Our mutual friend Bev Carter, now deceased, had coined that name for him in the early 70's meanwhile, she was Beverwill, coined by my Brother who was called Rubala, while I was called Garala. Hecky had never debriefed on his C of S and Sea Org experiences. He was declared in 1982. He's talked to several exes, his closest ex is Spanky Pinion but none of his friends seem to have any perception that he needs help and if they do, they don't know how to deliver the needed help. Lakey to the rescue! Using half acks punctuated with some major full acks as I mentioned above plus projecting a lot of empathy and concern, the charge begins to come off and the guy starts to relax. The massage and pressing on his head and allowing charge to blow off adds another dimension to the debrief but it is not necessary!

Hector was lucky he found me. I am genuinely greatly concerned about all the charge he has stored up in him from his mishandlings at CCLA and mis - indications, i.e. being falsely labled a suppressive person, etc.. I share over 4 years of being on staff with him in good times and we were both beaten up pretty badly, him much worse than me, and then thrown out with no debrief or concern by the Sea Org. He got declared but I did not. I look at it as a privelege to help rehab someone who had been screwed over. I know the tech on it, know the mechanics of how to do it and I receive tremendous satisfication doing it. It is fun, it is challenging and there is almost nothing I would rather do than rehab an ex Scio who was trashed by C of S. I find it equally enjoyable to seeing a spellbinding mystery movie or getting hooked on a great book and not being able to put it down. Had I not shown up, Hector would have eventually gone to his grave with this enormous pent up charge inside of him. It is a privelege to be able to fix someone in this state and a duty to do it if you know how.

Hector was revitalized by attending this event. First, I debriefed him and then he heard the Kangen presentation. He still has a lot of connections from the old days in C of S and he still is very persuasive as a salesman. He saw here that he might possibly have a means to promote a product that has health benefits and become affluent doing it. He is going to weigh his options and we are all going to go to a follow up event in Glendale, next Sunday. Between receiving a debrief from me and from what he learned from the presentation, and all the people he met, the pensive, purposeful Hector who left the meeting was a different man from the person who frist drove up.
Lakey

I like using half acks. Over the years I've spoken to quite a few exes
and helped relieve them of charge. I can ring nearly all first world countries for free, and often ask people if they want to chat. Usually people with a troubled history re COS. Just recently I spoke with the person who's mail
was the OP on thread " Help". He is the son of Virginia McClaughrey. I knew her for a few years on the net, and she is nuts. I was her second biggest enemy after Alan Walter. Note that ALL in the FZ/independant field were
her enemies if she'd heard of them that is! Her son had a lifetime of reverse scn from her and is/was suffering terribly. As I knew something of what its like to be associated with her there was strong R, and he later posted that
I was the only person who ever understood him or something similar.

I used to consider my TRs were only so so. But they seem to work.
Did them the hard way twice, once at flag. Many other times including twinning with a class VIII that was on the experimental 1963 SHBC and
could do unmetered auditing better than LRH.

When I met Phil Spickler and wife, both class VIIIs, they said I
created a brilliant itsa maker line. I nearly fell off my chair!

Anyway, it seems there's at least something in what they say. Its
sort of appropriate or fitting that a lot of my hard work training is of
use now. Did OEC/FEBC. Interesting but now I wish it had been time
spent in tech training. However I chose the admin path, and it was
basically right for me because thats the sort of hat I'm wearing.

 

[Terril park]

Shortly thereafter, our group wanted to leave and I thought seriously about asking her for her phone number. I am 70, but most people take me from 52 to 60, still I am easily old enough to be her grandpa. I thought I should just move on and forget it. Even so, I asked her, "What do your do, are you still in school? She said, "No, I run my own business, and then I also do modeling and some small movie and acting rolls, in my spare time but my main interest is my business." Just then, I was told we are leaving now so I told her I had to go and that I really enjoyed meeting her and talking to her and she said, that it was nice meeting me too and that she was sure that she would see us all around at the ensuing Kangen Water events. Does anyone have any comments on this woman Anisha?

She sounds cool!

However my main comment is if you don't ask you don't get!

Maybe you'd get really lucky and have a romance. Sounds like
you could have at least gained a new good friend.

maybe you'll still get lucky and have one or the other.

 

[Enthetan]

Just recently I spoke with the person who's mail
was the OP on thread " Help". He is the son of Virginia McClaughrey. I knew her for a few years on the net, and she is nuts. I was her second biggest enemy after Alan Walter. Note that ALL in the FZ/independant field were
her enemies if she'd heard of them that is!

Did this Virginia McClaughrey used to be in the Sea Org, and did she used be be married to Bill Rhodes?

 

[lkwdblds]

Thanks for your Replies Terril!

I like using half acks. Over the years I've spoken to quite a few exes
and helped relieve them of charge. I can ring nearly all first world countries for free, and often ask people if they want to chat. Usually people with a troubled history re COS. Just recently I spoke with the person who's mail
was the OP on thread " Help". He is the son of Virginia McClaughrey. I knew her for a few years on the net, and she is nuts. I was her second biggest enemy after Alan Walter. Note that ALL in the FZ/independant field were
her enemies if she'd heard of them that is! Her son had a lifetime of reverse scn from her and is/was suffering terribly. As I knew something of what its like to be associated with her there was strong R, and he later posted that
I was the only person who ever understood him or something similar.

I used to consider my TRs were only so so. But they seem to work.
Did them the hard way twice, once at flag. Many other times including twinning with a class VIII that was on the experimental 1963 SHBC and
could do unmetered auditing better than LRH.

When I met Phil Spickler and wife, both class VIIIs, they said I
created a brilliant itsa maker line. I nearly fell off my chair!

Anyway, it seems there's at least something in what they say. Its
sort of appropriate or fitting that a lot of my hard work training is of
use now. Did OEC/FEBC. Interesting but now I wish it had been time
spent in tech training. However I chose the admin path, and it was
basically right for me because thats the sort of hat I'm wearing.

It's great to here your successes in the area of rehabilitating exes. It appears you have had many experiences similar to what I just had with Hector. Very well done to you and thanks for sharing your wins and the tech you use. If is amazing what a well intended and caring person can achieve with only a caring attitude, good TR's, especially TR 2 and an intention to help. A lot can be done, even if one doesn't have the full tech background or all the theory on what he or she is doing. Of course, obtaining those items should be attempted as well, and if mastered should imporve one's results. That being an obvious truth and being duly noted, I would say that one should always plunge in and make an all out effort to help even without full hatting. This is one instance where having to have before you can do is really not the best practice. I feel so strongly about this that I will make up my own aphorism, "DON'T TARY! DO WHAT YOU CAN NOW! AFTERWARDS, GO BACK AND STUDY MORE THEORY, MORE TECHNIQUE BUT ALWAYS DO WHAT YOU CAN IN THE PRESENT MOMENT!

HELPING SOME PRETTY BIG BEINGS WHO HAVE LEFT C OF S

Ken Urquhart - Second man to Hubbard for years during the 70's and 80's has more of a Freezone outlook and was tending not to participate on message boards such as ESMB. He and I made friends on Facebook which led to an exchange of private emails. I ended up sending him a link to this thread which he has started reading and says that he he will eventually read the entire thread. A lot of the things which we are doing over here are new to him and he finds them interesting. He has been exposed to a lot of new ideas and concepts here, much of which he likes and approves of and some things which he does not care for. At least that is my opinion. He has been helped through his dialogue with me and of course I have been helped greatly in return. Any contact on a personal level with a man of his stature and spirituality is going to be beneficial.

Bent Corydon - Another being of great stature, also very spiritual and a great achiever while in C of S.

Johnny the Magic Thetan - One of our most stellar beings was able to be helped, not through exposing to him any new incites or technologies but helped nonetheless by providing a forum for him on which to get his message across to his public. Moveover, the first day he posted on ESMB, he loved that Rossini William Tell Overture with the Lone Ranger like words which I used to introduce him. He called me on the phone to tell him that it made him cry. Then since his posts were so extremely long, I recommeded to him Titles for the major paragraphs so that if a person couldn't read it all at once, they could make note of where they left off. The closest I came to helping him technically was when I tried to duplicate his blow by blow story of the final months of his wife's terminal illnes. He told me at our dinner meeting that I supplied him what he wanted when I attempted to duplicate his story and then relay my thoughts back to him.

By the way, where is Johnny? Does anyone know?

Also, Terril thanks about the comments about an overweight 70 year old man, being attracted to a 23 year old women. I think you are right. If I am attracted for whatever reason, why not make a reach. There is a possiblity of making a friend, maybe she needs a Father figure in her life at this time and we might be good for each other. There is a slight possiblity that she may be experitmenting around with older men and might even want a sexual encounter, if that was the case, I would seize the opportunity and enjoy it for the moment -no big deal. The one thing which is certain is that if I do not reach there is zero chance of something good happening. If a reach is initiated, various possibilities emerge. Being refused would hurt me not even in the slightest way. She will probably be at the meeting in Glendale next week, if so, I will play my meager hand and see what happens. It is like having a pair of deuces in poker, if you can stay in the pot at no cost to you, why not stay in and draw, things can only remain the same or get better but there is no down side.
Lakey

 

[RogerB]

Lakey,

You get what you create . . . and if you don't create, then you get and maybe suffer what someone else creates.

My last four sweeties have all been 20-22 years younger than me. It works fine.

Create what others are willing to have, and life is wonderful.

Withhold or restrain your create and life, I suspect, is miserable.

Rog

 

[FoTi]

Beautiful painting. Beautiful daughter. Your PC must've been very grateful to you. I love the colors in the picture. As I sit here I am looking at my mother's old oil paintings that she has retrieved from the attic. It is nearing 5 a.m. and she is asleep. She wants to throw everything into a garage sale. I cannot believe she can part with these paintings. She has bullfighters in Madrid. She has pheasant in the winter flying. She has a Navajo indian medicine man she replicated from Arizona Highways magazine. This house is full of paintings by friends. Last year I discovered Paul Calle. He painted Jeremiah Johnson type stuff. Gorgeous.

My stepfather was a gunsmith and his family participated in the Revolutionary War. He painted pictures like this.

How about taking her paintings to a gallery and selling them there? Or selling them online? Or making prints and selling them online? ..... etc?

Garage sale?

Maybe you could have a dealer come and look at them?

 

[Hatshepsut]

How about taking her paintings to a gallery and selling them there? Or selling them online? Or making prints and selling them online? ..... etc?

Garage sale?

Maybe you could have a dealer come and look at them?

I've decided to learn how to get mom on Craigslist. Thanks FoTi. Someone truly in the market will more likely come for a look see that way.

 

[FoTi]

I've decided to learn how to get mom on Craigslist. Thanks FoTi. Someone truly in the market will more likely come for a look see that way.

Did you check out art dealers online?

Here's one.

http://www.fineartinvestments.org/a...arts dealers&gclid=CLOlpaiAl6QCFctW2godYRwzIw

 

[afaceinthecrowd]

Maudlin Sometimes I Am

There have been so many wonderful posts on this thread…recently, from the beginning and throughout.

I didn’t know about FoTi’s thread with her story until Carmelo brought it up and I’ve started reading it. WOW FoTi, Thank You!!!. We trod, here and there, some of the same “turf” and your unique narrative well captures so much the “feel” and so much of that “moment in time”.

So many of y’all have crossed my path. Our paths crossed in so many ways and so much of the same ground over the years. I see in your stories where you were, when you were there, whom you knew and interacted with, what was the current “directives de jour” and I was there, in so many of the places and situations around those times and know so many of those people, places and times. Y'all's narrative's are such a gift for me. Amazing!

I knew Hector…Thank You, Lakey, for helping him on his Path to Absolution. Thank you Terril…I couldn’t do what you are doing and have done with all the “ejecta and dejecta from the 'Volcano'”.

Y’all are the “Salt of the Earth”. Y’all are what I “joined up with”. A billion years in time can pass like the blink of an eye; some moments in time are eternal.

Ah, y’all’s individual Passé tendu, my friends, has been magnificent! Y’all, each and and every one, is truly the Grand pas Des bons gens!

Thank all y'all for being there and communicating.

Face

 

[RogerB]

I've decided to learn how to get mom on Craigslist. Thanks FoTi. Someone truly in the market will more likely come for a look see that way.

Hats,

Have you had these properly appraised . . . . there is a huge and important market for old frontier-type and early American art. If those pics you show re actually of the works . . . . and given the age of them you cite . . . they can bring big $$$ and recognition. It does not require that they be "named" artists . . . it's the genre.

R

 

[Enthetan]

Hats,

Have you had these properly appraised . . . . there is a huge and important market for old frontier-type and early American art. If those pics you show re actually of the works . . . . and given the age of them you cite . . . they can bring big $$$ and recognition. It does not require that they be "named" artists . . . it's the genre.

R

Roger's got an excellent point. If these are real early American art, don't put them on craigslist, do some research and find somebody that deals with this type of art.

 

[Mark A. Baker]

Hats,

Have you had these properly appraised . . . . there is a huge and important market for old frontier-type and early American art. If those pics you show re actually of the works . . . . and given the age of them you cite . . . they can bring big $$$ and recognition. It does not require that they be "named" artists . . . it's the genre.

R

There are many such galleries around in major cities such as NY, SF, LA, etc.. However, the town of Santa Fe is especially rich with collectors of southwestern art. Santa Fe is also an especially nice town to visit. One of my favorite u.s. destinations. High tourist season there (June-September) has just passed. That's when the art galleries sell like crazy.

If you can hold on to your art for a few more months, you might try contacting some galleries via the internet and exploring if there is any interest. If so, a trip to New Mexico next spring might prove lucrative for your mother and fun for you.


Mark A. Baker

 

[afaceinthecrowd]

There are many such galleries around in major cities such as NY, SF, LA, etc.. However, the town of Santa Fe is especially rich with collectors of southwestern art. Santa Fe is also an especially nice town to visit. One of my favorite u.s. destinations. High tourist season there (June-September) has just passed. That's when the art galleries sell like crazy.

If you can hold on to your art for a few more months, you might try contacting some galleries via the internet and exploring if there is any interest. If so, a trip to New Mexico next spring might prove lucrative for your mother and fun for you.


Mark A. Baker

The five best Art markets in the US are NYC, LA, Houston, Chicago and Sante Fe.

Face

 

[Zinjifar]

70-Year-Old horndogs are a sign of hope. But, they belong in the FCDC thread.

Zinj

 

[Hatshepsut]

Hats,

Have you had these properly appraised . . . . there is a huge and important market for old frontier-type and early American art. If those pics you show re actually of the works . . . . and given the age of them you cite . . . they can bring big $$$ and recognition. It does not require that they be "named" artists . . . it's the genre.

R

Oh me oh my!!! Dear Me! The sentences ran on in close context.I meant to say that I discovered Paul Calle who painted like my dad. He was not one of the friends who's paintings were on the carpet. Paul Calle is VERY famous thru North America. I discovered him last year. He painted a lot like my stepdad.http://www.prints.com/limitededitio...=f&UF=0&CF=0&gclid=CPiWyfC3l6QCFQhj7AodZT3NEQ

THIS is another Paul Calle. He also illustrated for the moon landing for Life Magazine

Originally Posted by Hatshepsut View Post
Beautiful painting. Beautifu daughter. Your PC must've been very grateful to you. I love the colors in the picture. As I sit here I am looking at my mother's old oil paintings that she has retrieved from the attic. It is nearing 5 a.m. and she is asleep. She wants to throw everything into a garage sale. I cannot believe she can part with these paintings. She has bullfighters in Madrid. She has pheasant in the winter flying. She has a Navajo indian medicine man she replicated from Arizona Highways magazine. This house is full of paintings by friends. Last year I discovered Paul Calle. He painted Jeremiah Johnson type stuff. Gorgeous.
My stepfather was a gunsmith and his family participated in the Revolutionary War. He painted pictures like this

 

[Hatshepsut]

70-Year-Old horndogs are a sign of hope. But, they belong in the FCDC thread.

Zinj

 

[Hatshepsut]

There are many such galleries around in major cities such as NY, SF, LA, etc.. However, the town of Santa Fe is especially rich with collectors of southwestern art. Santa Fe is also an especially nice town to visit. One of my favorite u.s. destinations. High tourist season there (June-September) has just passed. That's when the art galleries sell like crazy.

If you can hold on to your art for a few more months, you might try contacting some galleries via the internet and exploring if there is any interest. If so, a trip to New Mexico next spring might prove lucrative for your mother and fun for you.


Mark A. Baker

Won't be necessary as described in earlier post. I have seen the art come in from New Mexico though. We had the Cheyenne Saloon and Opry house downtown where Rosie O'Grady's Emporium was. FancimusMaximus! They used to have a lot of the Art Work come around on a circuit. Also the Fort Wilderness Lodge used to display the art for sale of that genre. Amazing pieces.

 

[CarmeloOrchards]

At the Sunday Kangen party I encountered an interesting situation.

ANISHA - DID I GET HIT UPON BY A 22-23 YEAR OLD SUPER MODEL TYPE? Hector and I were waiting to use the restroom when a darling young super model type came right up to me and said to me, "You look familiar, I think we have met before." I told her that she did not look at all familiar to me and she said that she is pretty certain that we have met. I asked her where she lives and she said in Long Beach and I replied that I do home remodeling in the Long Beach area and that it is likely that somehow we met through that. She said no, that is not possible, she doesn't own a home or anything like that. I said that if we did not meet through that venue, then I do not know how we could have met. She said, "Oh well, a lot of times you think you have met someone and you really haven't but you sure look familiar. I then went back to get food from a buffet and was pleased to find Anisha at our table and we started talking with her includinging Hector, Edey, Edey's boss and me. This girl was very, very sharp and intelligent and quite worldy. I asked her if she had been helped by drinking the Kangen water but I quickly added, before she had a chance to answer, "...probably not because you are so young and there has not been enough time for things to go wrong with your body." She said that she had been helped greatly by the water, particularly with her sleeping which had been irregular and is now sound.

Shortly thereafter, our group wanted to leave and I thought seriously about asking her for her phone number. I am 70, but most people take me from 52 to 60, still I am easily old enough to be her grandpa. I thought I should just move on and forget it. Even so, I asked her, "What do your do, are you still in school? She said, "No, I run my own business, and then I also do modeling and some small movie and acting rolls, in my spare time but my main interest is my business." Just then, I was told we are leaving now so I told her I had to go and that I really enjoyed meeting her and talking to her and she said, that it was nice meeting me too and that she was sure that she would see us all around at the ensuing Kangen Water events. Does anyone have any comments on this woman Anisha?

Edey compared well to all the super model looking women present. She wore a lovely print dress, sleeveless and with a hem line just above the knees. She is nearly 60 and there were 4 or 5 beutiful women there in their mid 20's and Anisha, in her early 20's" Eddie still looked very good.

Edey has excellent posture and carries herself very well. She is still very sexy. Only Anisha rang my chimes more than Edey as far as being turned on. Eddie held her own with the other women, 35 years her junior.
Lakey

When I was in 9th grade, honors biology, I was 14. My girl friend was 13 (she had skipped a grade). That was the first and last time that I had a girl friend younger than me. She is still my friend. She's an oceanographer in Seattle.

My suggestion is that you re read Bernie Wimbush's advice on sales. Creating relationships is a sale activity. Flirting is sales.

here is a primer on flirting:

http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt

TEN FREE FLIRTING TIPS - Flirting.com

1. Attitude: If you don't have it, you can't flaunt it. The best flirts are risk takers with an unshakeable confidence.

2. Humor: A must-have. One of the core elements of a relationship is the ability to make the other person laugh; be it "at" or "with" you.

3. Believability: You have to believe you're a great catch or no one else will. Period. If you don't think you're worth it, you've lost the game before it's begun.

4. Assertiveness: Approach someone and start a conversation. And no, you do not have to be a male to make the first move. Welcome to the 21st century.

5. Accessorize: Not with jewelry and matching shoes, but with conversation starters like dogs, a good book, or a signature scent that's bound to attract attention.

6. Approachability: Nobody likes an ice-queen, or king for that matter. Force yourself to let your guard down and you'll make yourself more approachable.

7. Eye Contact: Don't stare the other person down; simply give them the attention and respect they deserve. BONUS: Direct eye contact also shows confidence!

8. Have Fun: Nothing says "comfortable" like a person who is willing to "let down their hair" and be spontaneous and goofy. It goes back to that humor thing!

9. Sincerity: If they are truly interested in you, they will want you to feel comfortable being the "real you." Don't be afraid to show a little vulnerability.

10. Smile: Not only does it show you're enjoying their company, it's contagious, and it makes you one hundred times more attractive and approachable!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A7yaX9-GNeU

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yPY-M6zAeVg&feature=related

 

[Hatshepsut]

I stopped in the Barnes and Noble a few months ago to get a calendar. There on a stand on the second floor right at the top of the escalator was this big book titled THE GAME. I leafed thru it and could not put it down. 45 minutes later I was still standing there mesmerized. What a fun book by a couple of young guys about the art of the 'pick up'. These guys sort of gave you their diary of trial and error experiments. Most of it proves that sexuality is in the brain. They are psychologically manipulative and then explain why the things they are doing work almost every time. Not quite cads....just game! Interesting read. 4 thumbs up