As an aussie in the US, Thanksgiving doesn't have the deep emotional ties it has to most Americans. Though it is special to my kids.
Recently realized that April next year, my company will be 15 years old, started as my final journey from the Scilon world, while living out of my car, after divorcing my second wife. The location was strategically distant from any Scilon base, and there was only one scilon, a dentist, now ex, in a 100 mile radius.
An interesting tradition started. As thanksgiving didn't have much meaning to me, I would happily work through, giving all other staff a break, allowing me time of for Christmas and New Year, both of which I love. The staff at that point, because we were flat broke and shouldn't have even been in business, were drunks, ex cons, basically people who couldn't get real jobs or be accepted in the real world. Actually a perfect match for a person born and raised in a cult, spending their formative years in the Sea Org. We were jokingly called "Mike's misfits". I even have t shirts with the moniker, sorry I digress.
We became very close, none of us could afford a home, so we stayed at the facility, at that time a fleet of sinking barges, in a swamp, with a couple of trailers where some of them parked their motor homes, and others shared when too hot or cold to sleep in the steel holds of the barge.
Cajuns are some of most remarkable examples of humanity I have encountered; tough as hell, no better or more loving friend, no more brutal enemy and resourceful as hell. They love to drink and have a good time. My guys wanted to give, to share thanksgiving, so we started having a group thanksgiving that they would put on for me. None of us had money for a turkey the first year or two, so thanksgiving was prepared from what they could catch, alligator gar fish, squirrels, fish, nutria rat, I do think there was some road kill involved, though no one would admit. Somehow they always had money for alcohol, so a day or two before, we would have our celebration. Those who had family, and family who would see them, left in a motor home or two, the rest went into town or stayed at the facility, at that point a fleet of 4 sinking and rusted barges, some of which were built in the 60s. I loved those times, those people, I started to learn what real friendship was. We were thankful for each other.
Move forward 6 years, we became land based, the barges had deteriorated to the point they were impossible to insure and impossible to keep afloat easily. But we had grown enough to be able to buy some land and create a land based facility, two property owners decided to owner finance their property to me with no credit and little money down.
We continued our company thanksgiving, but now in an office with AC, and it was a lunch, and we ordered professionally cooked food.
I had just found Max, or rather he found me, the stray I have written about earlier. He was still pretty feral but was filling out with an unbelievable appetite. He is a big puppy, standing about 6'6" on his hind legs. I was living in the warehouse at the time, because I still couldn't afford an apartment or home, so Max lived with me, we shared a bed, and dog doors or holes with fabric over them allowed him free access pretty well anywhere.
Thanks giving lunch is set out. I go to gather everyone up, come back and max is standing on the table. He had, in a matter of minutes eaten the entire 10 lb turkey, and was half way through the spiral wound ham, biting some slices through the edge, whipping his head up, tearing the meat off, and flipping it into his mouth. We ate McDonalds. As we got busier and larger, this tradition fell out, I should start it again.
One of our Christmas traditions is to share from our respective heritages, Soul food, Mexican, TexMex, etc. etc. I as the resident mutt, choose to share German Christmas stuff because frankly, Germans do Christmas much better than the Aussies. So I get hundreds of German Advent Christmas calenders with chocolates, stollen, ginger breads, this year I think we have already distributed 200 lb of imported stuff. It goes to employees, customers, drivers, and folks going through a hard time. We have been doing it long enough that some kids can only remember the countdown to Christmas with the German advent calenders their fathers, perhaps truck drivers, still living in their home town and never traveled out of the US, or their moms, a receptionist with a customer, got from us. Kind of cool.
So I have been battling a bit of illness, not up to driving to Dallas to visit my sister, but made no plans as of last night. One of my closes friends, a customer, a vender, a person born dirt poor, without a father that worked his way up to building and owning a 10 million dollar company, a devout christian, just a good guy, some one who knows me well, calls me at 9PM last night, asking if I had figured out what I was doing. I said not yet. He drives over and drops off a Cajun smoked turkey, wishing me a happy thanksgiving.
I look at the noise and value of my time in the Scilon empire, what good I actually did for people, what motivated the people in my life. I look at my life now, the people in it, the genuine friends motivated by little more than friendship, and am thankful for being free. The real world is tough, it is brutal, it is often unfair, unjust and biased, but the people, good people make it so much better than what I had inside.