I never got Hubbard's "What's true for you is true for you," until I had an incredible Satori experience of my own nature. This was an experience of what Zen calls the "thusness" or "suchness" of one's own nature. I got that I was the way I was. That was ineffable. And, it was subjective. My nature was true for me and this understanding was liberating. However, my nature was not true for other people. Therefore, the outcome of this Satori experience was to grant other people their own beingness as a function of having granted myself my own beingness.
Said another way, a profound gesture of self-acceptance made it easier for me to accept others. I realized that we all have a subjective struggle. It is hard work to come to the spiritual realization that what is true for you is true for you. As a corollary, what is true for you is not true for others.
Groups of like-minded people form where people have a common experience of what is true for them.
Where Scientologists err is in asserting that their subjective experience of the Tech is scientific, objective, and is therefore binding upon all of Humanity. For example, the belief that the reactive mind is universal to all humans. The reactive mind is in fact mocked up and therefore cannot ultimately be true for anybody. Therefore, why audit the grades? Who or what is being audited?
LRH universalized what was true for him and that was a mixed bag like most things in life. For instance, LRH universalized his homophobia into a doctrinal taboo against gay people. LRH could rather have had it be true for him that he did not like homosexuals and stop there. Instead, Hubbard exempted himself from his own aphorism of "What is true for you" by declaring himself Source and establishing KSW. Therefore, what was true for LRH became true and binding upon all Scientologists via KSW. Gays and SP's become 1.1's because Hubbard was unwilling to look at his own considerations about gay people and those who disagreed with him. If LRH had been audited on a question like, "What comes up for you about those who disagree with you?" the hateful Fair Game the PTS/SP doctrines may have never been created by the man.
The only safe space that LRH allowed to remain in of CoS was inside of a session for which one had to donate money. Hubbard knew how to game it all to his advantage. His policies often disagreed with his lofty ideals.
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Very nice post!
Genuine, too!