Nice Blog Geir, very nice.
I think it will help a lot of people.
On your "I've Had It" comment in your post above . . .

I have a comment.
At our level we need to be alert to what we postulate as we can inadvertently create conditions other than knowingly intended.
Of course, I'm imputing various possible interpretations and meanings into those words you wrote, and certainly don't have the specificity of the "it" that you've had!
The thing I've found I've had to be careful of and had to handle is the fact that I can be picking up other peoples' emotions, hatreds, upsets and reactivated case from where ever they are as I connect to them via the comm lines of these lists.
Of course, the nasty types among them want others (us) to be affected by their negative reactions. We on the other hand need to be rather precise on whose shit is whose, allow them to have it as theirs since they are creating it and to not ourselves mis-own and wear it.
So, in actuality, even though some nasty types vent with invective at us, we should not "give up" or conclude "we've had it" due to being targeted by the invective, even though we might have mistakenly not handled the traffic ideally and felt the upset ourselves as "our own."
I have found the "I am upset" because of others' invective directed at me following posts I've made that are intended to help others to be a wrong answer and indeed a mis-assignment of cause, source and ownership. It ain't my upset or charge! While it's true I may well have perceived or even experienced it, it ain't mine and I've learned to "return the shit to sender!" and to leave it there.
My attitude now days is that, if another wants to create shit, let them have it stay where they are.
In working with advanced cases one of the things I've observed has to be learned is the above truth that we do perceive the conditions emanating from others at a distance. The trick is to not mis-own it and to not be ourselves upset by it and to allow the shit to stay where it belongs.
PS: I'll make some time and post a comment on your blog.
Rog