Hi All
Ive been lurking for a few weeks now after being sent a link to ESMB by my step sister - her story is on these boards also.
My original intention had been to come and read Trish's story then move along - Ive been out of scn for over 20 years and hadn't really been interested in what was happening with either side of the pro/anti debate so I had never bothered visiting any sites or message boards on the subject, but apart from the family connection, I'd always had a lot of respect for Trish - both for the integrity she always managed to maintain no matter what they threw at her while she was on staff and for the things she has done with her life since getting out, so I came to pay respect to her story. That's probably the sort of thing I should tell her myself one of these days, but my family know me well enough to know that will probably never happen lol - I'm pretty good at lurking in real life too
I started reading other stories... I thought I had heard most of the horror stories over the years...I was wrong. It's one thing to read about something in the paper with all the raw human emotion stripped out of it, it's a totally different experience reading those "little incidents" being recounted by the people who had to live through them. I was surprised at how much it bothered me - I had walked away from scn barely out of my teens and now in my mid forties I thought I had dealt with it all many years ago, apparently not as well as I thought I had. Thank you for sharing your stories
I've seen talk in a few threads about agendas, so I'll be upfront about mine- this is mostly about me. I've never talked a lot to anyone about my time in the CoS and I think it would be good for me to do so, if my story helps someone else that's a bonus. There will be times I resort to scn terminology, if that upsets or offends anyone I apologise in advance - but sometimes the best way to describe what was happening is to use their own language. Some of my opinions on some people may not sit well with some - but I believe in judging people based on your own experience, my experiences with most of the people in my story are more than 20 years ago they may have changed since, but for this to be of any benefit to me or anyone else it has to be honest - or at least the truth as I believe it to be - so again any upset/offense is not intended.
This wont necessarily be told in sequence - some things stick in my mind more than others, there will probably be a few random sidetracks too - I tend to just write what I'm thinking. There are worse stories than mine on these boards, and better written ones, but for what it's worth this is my experience with scientology
Ive been lurking for a few weeks now after being sent a link to ESMB by my step sister - her story is on these boards also.
My original intention had been to come and read Trish's story then move along - Ive been out of scn for over 20 years and hadn't really been interested in what was happening with either side of the pro/anti debate so I had never bothered visiting any sites or message boards on the subject, but apart from the family connection, I'd always had a lot of respect for Trish - both for the integrity she always managed to maintain no matter what they threw at her while she was on staff and for the things she has done with her life since getting out, so I came to pay respect to her story. That's probably the sort of thing I should tell her myself one of these days, but my family know me well enough to know that will probably never happen lol - I'm pretty good at lurking in real life too
I started reading other stories... I thought I had heard most of the horror stories over the years...I was wrong. It's one thing to read about something in the paper with all the raw human emotion stripped out of it, it's a totally different experience reading those "little incidents" being recounted by the people who had to live through them. I was surprised at how much it bothered me - I had walked away from scn barely out of my teens and now in my mid forties I thought I had dealt with it all many years ago, apparently not as well as I thought I had. Thank you for sharing your stories
I've seen talk in a few threads about agendas, so I'll be upfront about mine- this is mostly about me. I've never talked a lot to anyone about my time in the CoS and I think it would be good for me to do so, if my story helps someone else that's a bonus. There will be times I resort to scn terminology, if that upsets or offends anyone I apologise in advance - but sometimes the best way to describe what was happening is to use their own language. Some of my opinions on some people may not sit well with some - but I believe in judging people based on your own experience, my experiences with most of the people in my story are more than 20 years ago they may have changed since, but for this to be of any benefit to me or anyone else it has to be honest - or at least the truth as I believe it to be - so again any upset/offense is not intended.
This wont necessarily be told in sequence - some things stick in my mind more than others, there will probably be a few random sidetracks too - I tend to just write what I'm thinking. There are worse stories than mine on these boards, and better written ones, but for what it's worth this is my experience with scientology