Re: The old days - Aboard the Apollo - 1973
It was never about expectations for me, unless it was a longer term encounter. No was never a preventer of friendship for me with a girl. But Giz is right about girls and boys liking each other, especially in that first hormone flush. Testosterone and Estrogen are the most powerful mood altering substances in the world. When both agree, it's fun. When one doesn't, no means no. Period.
I am so sorry but I avoid boys that expect things as if I was a McDonald's menu. No offense to anyone. It has nothing to do with all those weird labels about morality or whatever. i just find it boring and I never go to McDonald's. I don't like those sorts of attitudes for myself and I am not attracted to pure physical sorts of things. It's a turn off so if it turned the other person off that I was turned off by their McDonalds view, why do I care, since I am probably not attracted to them, wouldn't of even ended up in the back seat, since we have different sort of attractions = zero attraction. And I am not discounting those things either. Just not my area. Not me.
As an old insane lady once said (a real one so this is documentary) "I don't have time to marry you right now." I won't explain what it means but basically, that is the gist.
It was never about expectations for me, unless it was a longer term encounter. No was never a preventer of friendship for me with a girl. But Giz is right about girls and boys liking each other, especially in that first hormone flush. Testosterone and Estrogen are the most powerful mood altering substances in the world. When both agree, it's fun. When one doesn't, no means no. Period.
I just love the way this thread weaves between subjects, almost no two consecutive posts talking about the same thing 
