Edey's big birthday bash - an event to remember
This was the all time best party I ever went to. Twenty five people showed up at a vegetarian restaurant in Fountain Valley in Orange County. Purple Haze (Candy Swanson) had called me out of the blue yesterday morning and I invited her to the party and she eagerly accepted. She already posted about the party on Facebook.
When I arrived, Johnny was already there, sitting next to Edey, who was all dolled up and wearing a very nice black evening party dress and the two were talking. Candy hit traffic from L.A. and was about a half hour late. Edey had friends there from her 12 year old friendship with a guy name Freddie from Fullerton. About 6 of the attendees were from that group, 2 were from her Kangen water business and the rest were the psychic people from Giner's Gardens, including Ginger herself and her daughter. The was great intermixing between the two groups and my group of 3 ex Scientologists. I had alread met virtually all of the people from my 3 months now of being Edey's pal.
The first late arrival was Lorinda, a tall, 5'10" very beautiful woman who is younger, in her late 40's and joined Edey in my opinion as the two most beautiful looking women at the function. Johnny perked up when Lorinda entered and she sat to my right while Johnny was on my left. Johnny wanted to sit next to the beautiful woman, so I swapped seats with her.
Edey told me she was bringing this guy who she is just starting to date. She knows that I have a crush on her and wanted to be her boyfriend but she told me that she had no chemistry with me as a boyfriend but I was her best friend otherwise or perhaps tied for first with her girl friend Kadriya.
Edey told me the night before that she would understand it if I did not wish to attend the party to see her with a new boyfriend. I told her, hell no, I am not going to let that stop me from coming. When I told her that, then she sheepishly asked if I would use my mind reading abilities to try and pick up this guys thoughts and intentions as to her being his girlfriend. I said sure, I would try and do that but made her no guarantees that I would be able to read his mind. On some people I can and some I can't. She said that if he had a headache or something, maybe you could give one of your neck massages and then place your hands on his head and read his thoughts better. I said, okay to that as well.
Since chemistry was important to her, I was expecting a very cool and manly guy, quite macho and suave and a realy exceptionally good looking guy. I couldn't believe it but the boy friend looked very similar to this old time comedian from the 50's, 60's and 70's.
That my friends is George Gobel! There is a tremendous resemblance between this man and George but this man has a receeding hairline and is overweight. He and I are about the exact same size, 5'11" and around 240 pounds. Also, he is 61 and I am 70 but it looks just the opposite, I look no more than 60 and he looks at least 70. I asked myself what is so special about this man's chemistry?
Candy, who is now elevated to one of my very best and closest friends, due to recent events which have taken place, was sitting next to me on my left and Kevin, the boyfriend, was directly on her left. Edey was floating around the room a lot, speaking to all her guests and Candy engaged Kevin in some lively and spirited conversation. I joined in on several of their conversations while Johnny was making time with the beautiful Lorinda.
Kevin is a nice guy. He is intelligent and isknowledgeable on a lot of topics. He went to Germany in 1971 and I went in 1967 and again last year so we compared notes on our early German trips. There is nothing wrong with the man, I would have him for a friend but there is no comparison as to who is better looking. I am about a 7.5 and if I really make an effort and get fixed up, I fancy myself to be an 8.0. Kevin is maybe a 6 or a 6.5. He has less panache or charisma than I do. I do not see where he has chemistry with Edey and I don't. I don't get it! Also, Kevin almost never looked at Edey and they barely ever touched. I was always watching Edey through the corners of my eyes. I can't take my eyes off of her for long. Obviously, I feel I am better suited to her as a 2D spiritually and physically. Mentally, we are approximately equal. I give sessions to Edey and all of her friends on demand where Kevin has no healing or physic powers which he can offer to help her or her group. If I thought he had more to offer her than me or that he could make her happier, I would gladly bow out but I feel just the opposite. I believe it was preordained that Candy just happened to call me yesterday morning and that I just happened to invite her to the party and she just happened to sit next to Kevin and talk to him all night and that she is a licensed Psychologist and Marriage and Pre Marriage counselor and a Class 8 auditor. Candy already told me over the phone her opinion and I want to be coached by Candy on how to approach this matter with Edey. I am scared that if I do it on my own, I will blow it while if Candy advises me, I will succeed.
If one has a must have on something and they are very interior into the situation, it is very likely that they will say all the wrong things and destroy their chances of success. I am fortunate to have Candy, knowing the entire scene and being their last night and having watched all of us talking and interacting. I am going to go with what Candy advises me and let her manage me every step of the way. This is very important to me, a big fork in the road of life. I don't want to be Mr. Nice Guy and be a good sport and a good loser. No, not this time - it is too important, losing this game is not an option. In the meantime, I feel a need to help Johnny out. He is tired of living alone, he needs a strong female terminal and a strong male terminal. He has invited me to his house in the near future. I fixed him up with Edey and they had a great date but romance did not come out of it but only friendship. Now I have introduced him to Lorinda and I plan to keep helping him in any way I can.
At 9:00 pm they had dancing in the back room with a lot of strobe lights and special lighting effect. Candy insisted that we dance. I am not a good dancer but I tried. Johnny is an excellent dancer as is Lorinda and Edey, Candy just went crazy shaking her head wildly and making all kinds of gyrations and moves. Kevin was fairly decent, somewhat better than me at dancing. I danced with Edey and Lorinda, Johnny danced mainly with Lorinda, and a wee bit with Edey nd Candy and Kevin danced with Candy and Edey. We danced for maybe 30-40 mnutes and then we wanted to go over to Ginger's Gardens.
Some went home and most went to Ginger's Gardens including Johnny. Candy stayed behind and said she was leaving. An hour later, Candy the wild woman, told me the chef had asked her to dance and so instead of leaving she danced with him for another hour. She started to tell me her opinion of Kevin and Edey as a couple but they were in the same room as me at Ginger's so I could not respond. In short, she said that in her opinion, and she does work as a pre marriage counselor, they are not compatible with each other and she would recommend to them that they not pursue a deeply comitted relationship. I am supposed to talk it over with Candy perhaps later today if she has time. Just now Edey called me and asked me what I thought of Kevin. I told her I did not want to tell her over the phone but would tell her tonight when I see her on this class we are taking together.
Candy, the dynamo, suggested we have another big party ASAP and do it at my house. The pretext would be to celebrate this thread hitting 200,000 views. That was Candy's idea and not mine. I had to sell this idea to my ex wife, Evy and I was successful so we are going to have the party in two weeks. Evy and her boyfriend Roberto will also be attending and I will invite the whole Todhunter clan, as well. I plan on inviting Lynn Fountain Campbell and several other Exes who I like a lot, even Blue Spirit and his wife although I do not know if Blue will come. Any one of you who want to come, send me a private email and I will give you all the particulars.
Lakey