Commander Birdsong
Crusader
Commander, I can think of nothing more devastating than losing a child. A death is worse than disconnection, which by itself is a mini version of hell. Many families go through similar events but scientology exacerbates it to a full version of hell.
You are an auditor, right? What does an auditor do?
An auditor listens per one of the normal dictionary definitions.
A scientology ‘auditor’ has an exactly prescribed method of how they listen and what to think and that is where it goes wrong.
So be a ‘normal’ auditor and just listen to the stories like mine .... absorb them .... they are full of truth. You don’t have to entertain, deflect or be mysterious. Just listen. Compassion and empathy come with understanding what is evil and what is not. By truthfully sharing experiences we can start to let go and live and love again.
well...
getting hit in the head with a sixteen pound sledgehammer swung by an enraged 500 lb sumo wrestler might be more devastating
still a shattered skull and a live son would be preferred
yeah...
a scientology auditor was overly prescribed then and i hear it's worse now. a free auditor can accept cognitions a scio auditor often refuses
but that's another story...
of course i very often do just listen to stories told on esmb
then other times i put in some comment, often contrapuntal. when i get back to bahhstin i'll expand on my response
nice to hear from ya, i feel the condolence you express and am grateful for it...