grrrrrrrrr
Welcome dsmturbo
I sense that you are very caring person.
I have only read the first 9 posts on this thread but I see unfortunately scientology
control subverting likely true love. So sad, as this is so common. Not to even including the splitting apart of her familial bonds. It is like a tug of war for her heart and life. She very likely really wants you but is so wrapped up and so invested in scientology of which the organization always thinks and acts according to hubbard's false promises and narcassistic personality traits, that she must be very torn as are you.
But there is hope as demonstrated by the many individuals here on ESMB who have done either OTVII or OTVIII and have left scientology.
I hope that her love wins out over the cultic mindset and manipulation of decades. It can happen. It has happened. And it appears it is happening more frequently.
Cheers. over and out for now as I go to read more of the thread.