I am sorry to have created the situation where you appear to be confused.
You saw what you saw.
I post under a pseudonym, and additionally some elements of my supporting persona are manufactured for the purpose of creating confusion about my true identity.
I have left the impression of both genders intentionally.
I enjoy the freedom of the internet to be who I SAY I am, of course with the corresponding limits to credibility that implies.
It is liberating and amusing to post as a gender not ones own, and compare the response.
No need to apologize.
The female in the pic I saw looks very familiar to me.